How to catch a liar

catch a liar

Okay, I know what you are thinking – How can I be an expert in this?! You need special training to catch a liar! I bet this kind of thing should come to you from an expert like an FBI agent or a criminal psychologist. […]

9 reasons why we love animation movies

Animation movies

We have seen some incredible animation movies in recent times! Who can forget the first few minutes of the 2015 movie – Minions? Wasn’t it hilarious when the minions try to save their Evil Masters from all perils and end up being the cause of […]

Why do we say No – The Rejection Theory

why do we say No?

The real reason behind a rejection Why do we say No? What is the actual reason for a rejection?  There are two things you need to know before we answer that question. One – ‘Logical decision.’ is a myth! The process of decision-making is more emotional […]

Convince people: The Franklin Effect

convince people

How often do you need to convince people? From grabbing a bargain from a second-hand car dealer to trying to convince your Boss on a salary raise, from getting your spouse to throw a party together to trying to get your son to do his […]

Killer Negotiator: Say less, listen more

Killer negotiator

We are well set out on our path of being that Killer negotiator who can snatch any deal from anyone! Different situations call for different actions, and it is the mark of a Master negotiator which method he uses. to snatch the bargain.  As I […]

Killer negotiator: The self-serving bias

A good negotiator wins the Deal for himself. A Killer negotiator creates a Win-Win for both parties! This is one of a series of posts on and this blog, targeted at the art of negotiation. Follow the links below for related posts. 1. Killer […]

The Fundamental use of Creativity

Use of creativity

The real use of creativity is one of the lesser known aspects of our psyche. I have been a crazy fan of the mind. It is fascinating to me that this tiny organ is capable of packing enough power to lift a person from dust […]

Independent Thoughts & their importance

Independent thoughts

Independent thoughts and their owners have always ruled the world. It really fascinates me how a single spec of a thought can change the course of history!! One single thought in Einstein’s prefrontal Cortex made humanity progress by leaps and bounds, and allowed us to dream of a future […]

Can you think out of the box?

out of the box

There are people who think out of the box, and then there are those who think in it. Which one are you? Few quick puzzles before we begin:- Turn the Roman Numeral Nine – IX into a 6 by using just one line. How can a […]

How to gain Relationship points

Relationship Points

In my earlier post, Taken for Granted, I had shared my idea about how we all gather a finite number of Relationship points or Hits, in a relationship. This thought should prevent us from taking anyone for granted ever again. No one apart from your parents […]

How to Recover from a Bad impression – 2

Bad Impression

Not everyone’s good or bad impression matter to us. This post is for those people whose bad impressions do matter.  In the first part of this blog, we have spoken about how a Bad impression is created between friends or colleagues. If you are like most people, […]

How to Recover from a Bad impression – 1

Bad Impresssion

A bad impression once created normally develops into a downward spiral which pulls you in, each time making it worse. They say it takes years to create an impression and it takes a minute to ruin it. That is how often personal or professional relationships end. We say – “I did […]

Having fun:10 Myths against a good Laugh

This is a continuation of the earlier post in my blog, Laugh as you Achieve, which describes immense benefits of laughter in the workplace. Biggest Myths causing today’s Don’t-laugh work environments High achievers, with very few exceptions, know how to smile, laugh and have fun. […]

Having Fun: Laugh as you achieve

Having fun

Many people I know are in grave serious jobs.  Having fun? Out of question!!!! Having fun is counter-productive, isn’t it? A friend of mine told me this story over dinner, and we had a hearty laugh over it. Tell me if the situation sounds familiar […]

Taken for Granted: Busting Relationship Myths

Taken for granted

It’s a busy life today.  Everyone is busy. So are you. But are you too busy to pay attention to your relationship? Are you sure your partner is not feeling taken for granted? Some of us have walked really close to the precipice without even knowing […]

Handling Arguments

How to handle Arguments In this blog we shall take a look at how to create a strategy to effectively make the best out of arguments which you are sometimes forced into. Now here’s the thing about arguments. It does not matter whether you win or you lose, […]

Long distance relationship

Long distance relationship

Will your Long Distance Relationship stand the test of time? To a kingdom far far away………         The sharply dressed guy turned back to see his girl one last time before leaving the country. It was a tough commitment. Once he walked through that boarding […]

The Vision of this Blog : What is this Blog all about??


What this blog is all about – The vision A few years back, my senior, who was an extremely competent and knowledgeable professional, asked me a question : “Don’t you feel the pressure?” As a professional I am into a very specific field of expertise. […]

The upside of Failure


Failure is a beautiful thing. How Failure can transform a man is one of the rarest wonders of our Human race.   Karoly Takacs was a soldier in the Hungarian army in 1936. He aspired to excel in pistol shooting. Over years of dedication of […]